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I call this the development dip, because it should only be temporary and represents a form of investment. Near where I live, a new fish restaurant has opened. In the window is a notice asking potential customers to bear with them while they are getting used to new equipment and working together. The owner understands the development dip and is managing customer expectations. (Last time I walked past it was packed.)
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One team with whom I had the privilege to work became highly effective by alternating their weekly management meetings between discussing process and activity. On week one they would discuss what they were doing. Any issues about how they were doing it were noted and held over. On week two, they talked about how they were doing things, making time for only the most urgent operational issues that could not be put off. Failing to plan for process work and the ‘development dip’ is probably one of the most common mistakes in | |
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| | change management, and that includes projects and business start-ups.
Leadership: Like good therapists (who are experts in managing people through change) leaders in change need to do three things. First they need to be potent. This is not about one person (male or female) being macho; it’s about people in the team feeling safe. It’s that kind of calm, authoritative quality that outdoor coaches have when they are getting you to abseil. To display this quality consistently takes a lot of energy | |
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| | feel about yourself. Good leaders give people permission to ‘feel the fear and do it anyway’. Working with them is like being on one of those theme park rides that are scary and safe at the same time. “Yes,” they say, “I know you are shaking inside. And you can do this.”
Finally, good leaders protect their team while they are going through change. They give them space and defend it from the incursions of others. The notice on the fish restaurant door was a simple but highly effective way of doing just that. | |
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| | and focus. Effective leaders look after themselves to ensure they have it available.
Potency is important because the second thing leaders need to do is give people permission to change: “It’s OK to do things differently.” Change feels inherently unsafe. It can be exciting or threatening, depending on how you | |
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