| When access to funding is difficult, clients might not want to make the misery worse by talking about the things they want to change. Malcolm Sleath from coaching consultancy 12boxes offers three routes to get the client to express dissatisfaction with the way things are. |
| Three ways to uncover client dissatisfaction |
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| | By Malcolm Sleath
Question: What do you do when a client agrees to an exploratory meeting but shows reluctance to talk about any problems or difficulties? I feel I have just wasted an hour, even though the client seemed willing to have the meeting.
Answer: There are very few people who are entirely satisfied with the state of their business, so my hunch is that you put the client on the defensive by trying to home in too soon on the problems they might have. Here are three suggestions that might help next time.
Look to the past. Every time we set out to do something, we have the best of intentions. Then real life intervenes and things get complicated. When this happens, we can easily lose sight of our original criteria and settle for what we can get, quietly forgetting about the shortfall. To take a simple example, most people hope that new software will simplify their business processes, yet we all | |
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| | know that it can bring problems of its own and maintaining the system can sometimes feel as if it has become an end in itself.
To highlight this shortfall, and the dissatisfaction that goes with it, time-shift the client to the point where they commissioned the original solution. You might ask, “So what were you originally hoping for when you decided on the new system?”
As you listen to the client, try to express the original solution as they might have done using the phrases ‘a way of’ and ‘so that’. For example, the new computer system might have been ‘a way of simplifying administration so that we could devote more energy to delivering excellent customer service’.
Once the client has acknowledged your summary of the original objective, it might only be necessary to ask, “And then what happened?” to elicit a wry smile and a discussion about the | |
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| | shortcomings of the present arrangements.
Highlighting the changes that have taken place over time can help the client to recognise the downward drift in their expectations and that it might be time to consider some other possibilities.
Make benchmarking the normal and right thing to do. It can be very instructive for a client to see how their performance in a particular area compares to other organisations in the same business or in businesses they would like to emulate.
However, benchmarking can feel threatening. It is a bit like going for a medical check-up. You think you feel OK and everything is fine until the doctor says that you are carrying too much weight and need more exercise or something similar. Sometimes you wish you had remained in blissful ignorance because you now have something else to think about.
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